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How to Reconnect with Dormant Clients: Rebuilding Lapsed Relationships

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If you’ve been in this business for any length of time, you know the cost, in terms of time, effort, and money, of bringing in a new client. You should also know that replacing a client who leaves with a new client costs five to 25 times more than retaining an existing one. Client retention is crucial to building a sustainable and profitable business.

How about when clients go dormant? They’re still on the books as clients but less engaged for one reason or another. They may still take your calls, but not necessarily your advice. If you track such things, you may find they no longer visit your website or respond to your social media outreach. They may have even pulled some business from you, leaving some to keep the relationship alive.

From a business standpoint, they may as well be a “lost” client. You either have to replace that lost business or find a way to reconnect and rejuvenate the relationship. The good news is these clients already know and trust you, so it should take less effort than starting from scratch with a new client. Additionally, proactively reaching out to inactive clients can uncover fresh opportunities and refortify the foundation of your relationship.

To Better Understand Your Client’s Goals, Listen Carefully to How They Express Them

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To Better Understand Client Goals, Listen Carefully to How They Express Them

A critical aspect of advising clients is to ascertain their financial goals correctly. If you or your clients don’t genuinely understand the goal, your advice could be dangerously off base, and you could lose your client’s confidence.

Clients typically come to financial advisors with various goals, but they might articulate them in nuanced ways, reflecting their concerns, values, and life circumstances. Your role as a financial advisor is to listen carefully, ask probing questions, and translate these expressions into actionable plans created around their biggest concerns, preferences, and priorities.

Here are five common financial goals clients have and how they might express them differently:

Changing Negative Perceptions and Attitudes as a Financial Advisor

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Most people become financial advisors because it is one of the more rewarding careers, indeed in terms of monetary rewards, but also working in the service of others to help them achieve financial security and long-term prosperity. However, many advisors struggle with aspects of their job that can lead to self-doubt, hesitation, and guilt.

These negative emotions often stem from deep-rooted perceptions and attitudes that can negatively impact client relationships and hinder professional growth. For example, for experienced advisors who become good at what they do, the job gets easier—almost too easy.

Make It Your Focus to Be Referable

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I don’t think any one method of prospecting works particularly well, but they all work. The idea is to pick one and stick with it. Whichever method you choose, give it a chance. Don’t bounce around. Get so good at the method you choose that getting referrals become as natural as brushing your teeth in the morning. Position yourself to be referable.

Watch this video or read the transcript below, adapted from the video, to learn how to make yourself referable.

5 Client Behaviors Financial Advisors Must Put a Stop to and How

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The widely studied field of behavioral finance has firmly established that many investors’ mistakes can be attributed to their emotions, which can cloud their judgment and overpower their patience and discipline. Ben Graham, arguably one of the best investors of all time, said, “The investor’s chief problem—even his worst enemy—is likely to be himself.”

Many financial advisors think their most important function is to devise financial strategies and help their clients allocate their assets to help them achieve their financial goals. Certainly, that’s important. But that’s what advisors study and train for. It’s what they do.

However, I would argue that the most essential function—the critical role advisors must fulfill—is that of a financial coach. Above all else, a financial or investment strategy rooted in sound practices and principles requires discipline and patience. However, when emotions cause a client to break from the strategy, you are the only person who can keep your clients anchored and coach them through the momentary instinct to act irrationally.

Addressing these behaviors proactively can help your clients stay on track and make sound decisions. Here are five common client behaviors that financial advisors should be prepared to address and strategies to manage them effectively.

A Guide to Securing Second Meetings with Prospects: Turning First Impressions into Lasting Partnerships

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It’s no exaggeration to say that the initial meeting with a prospective client is a make-or-break moment that sets the tone for the relationship and determines whether it will continue in a second meeting. The initial meeting is a crucial dance between the advisor and a naturally skeptical prospect who wants to know why they should work with you.

In a crowded field of financial advisors, the initial meeting presents a critical opportunity to differentiate yourself. Prospects are likely to meet with multiple advisors. You must make the prospect feel they’re making the right choice in working with you and that they should expect an advisory experience with you that they can’t get from anyone else. That’s a tall order.

But if you’re organized, practiced, and have the end in mind—a second meeting with the prospect—you can make each initial meeting a success.

Explaining the Nature of the Relationship (Acapulco Cliff Divers Analogy)

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“Mr. and Mrs. Client, I want to give you a word of caution in the event we experience volatility and turbulence. Investing money can and often does feel counterintuitive. There will be times when I urge you to add money to your account when the market is going down. That’s not going to feel right to you even though that’s exactly the time we should be adding to your account. It’s important that you understand why I would do that. May I tell you a story?

Watch this video or read the transcript below, adapted from the video, to learn a great story and analogy to help cement the relationship with a client.

Understanding Why Clients Might Seek a Second Opinion in Financial Planning and How to Avert It

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If you’ve been in this business long enough, you’re bound to encounter a client who wants to get a second opinion on some of your advice or a strategy you’ve developed. There’s no sugar-coating it—that can feel like a low blow—questioning your expertise and even your integrity.

While it might feel like a vote of no confidence, it’s often a symptom of a deeper need. Understanding these reasons and fostering a solid client relationship can help advisors minimize the need for external validation.

Decoding Doubt: 6 Non-Verbal Cues Clients Might Be Giving You That Signal a Trust Deficit

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Trust is the bedrock of any successful financial advisor-client relationship. But how do you know if a client truly trusts you, especially when they might not explicitly say it? Beyond the spoken word, clients often communicate their feelings through non-verbal cues. Learning to recognize these subtle signals can help advisors address underlying concerns and build stronger, more trusting relationships.

How Financial Advisors Can Be the Leader Their Clients Want

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In today’s complex financial landscape, being knowledgeable and able to connect with people is not enough. Clients expect more from you as their financial advisor. They expect you to lead them to financial security. Individuals seek financial advice because they lack the knowledge and expertise to navigate their financial futures effectively. But they are not inclined to follow just any advisor—only those who can unequivocally inspire trust and confidence. Why bother with anyone else?

Advisors must work each day to demonstrate leadership qualities that inspire trust, confidence, and informed decision-making. Here are the critical areas advisors should focus on to become leaders in the eyes of their clients:

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