September 15, 2014 / by Don Connelly / Managing the Relationship / 0 comments
By now you know my belief about gathering assets. If someone likes you, trusts you and thinks you are smart, you get the assets. If another Advisor ranks higher in those categories, he or she gets the assets.
Follow the Golden Rule and you will be likable. Simplify the business so that your listener can understand every word you say and you will be perceived as smart.
Do what you say you are going to do and you will earn the other person’s trust.
Like most things in life, the solution to each of these perceptions is simple. It’s not easy, but it is simple.
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How Much Value Do You Bring as a Financial Advisor?
February 12, 2015 / by Don Connelly / Don Guest Authoring at..., Managing the Relationship / 0 comments
What determines your value is not up to you to decide. It is left for the client to decide. And that decision is a lot simpler than you might think.
When selecting an Advisor, three things are of value to a prospective client.
That person must like the Advisor, that person must trust the Advisor and that person must think the Advisor is smart. There is very little else to factor in initially.
Prospective clients generally are not looking for more information.
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How Interpersonal Relationships Lead to You Being Trusted
September 15, 2014 / by Don Connelly / Managing the Relationship / 0 comments
By now you know my belief about gathering assets. If someone likes you, trusts you and thinks you are smart, you get the assets. If another Advisor ranks higher in those categories, he or she gets the assets.
Follow the Golden Rule and you will be likable. Simplify the business so that your listener can understand every word you say and you will be perceived as smart.
Do what you say you are going to do and you will earn the other person’s trust.
Like most things in life, the solution to each of these perceptions is simple. It’s not easy, but it is simple.
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People Think You’re So Smart When They Do All the Talking
January 20, 2014 / by Don Connelly / Best Practices / 0 comments
Did you ever walk away from a conversation thinking you just met a really smart, neat person, only to realize you did all the talking? I think we all have, at one time or another. What’s up? What do these people do to make us think they are so smart? They simply listen, that’s all, and we love them for it.
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